Dharamraj presents himself as perfect, never making mistakes , secretive and deceitful about his personal life, infidelity and his past. He has not been celibate, he’s been a carnivore, he has drank himself into an oblivion, carried weapons, directed threats at the innocent and has had many close calls with the law throughout his life. He does not learn from his experience. His obsession with power is what makes him break the rules. He is fearless and has grandiose self sense. Through manipulation and charm he does not care that he violates the rights of his followers and exploits devotees and does so for personal gain. The real Dharamraj thinks nothing of lying, cheating and stealing. He is driven by dominance and power. He does not experience empathy, guild, shame or remorse. He is not bound by conscience for he has none.
The real Dharamraj exuberates criminal and/or entrepreneurial versatility. But “GOD” forbid you ask him “show me the money” or “investments”. Even if that money came from the devotees themselves. The large mansion and properties were not materialized. IF they were it happened in the absence of the devotees and presence of his wife and the daughters.
Dharamraj, hides behind the cloak of appearing to be the all-knowing/ almighty who is going to teach lessons to the devotees of riding themselves from egoism and pride. He allows no questions and he allows no room for doubt. In reality he becomes easily angered when his power drive is thwarted.
The desperate and kind devotees take the scolding as Baba’s blessing while praying to God to help them rid themselves of their BAD human behavior as they thank the Lord and submit themselves for the Devine mercy as his devout devotees.
Dharamraj Sugriv Singh portrays and acts as the "spokesman for God," "enlightened," "leader of humankind," seeking admiration from others all while remaining an ATHEIST.
The following is an actual write up that Dharamraj and His daughter Sonia sent to the devotees “the chosen ones” after one (human) man had raised a question to Dharamraj:
Sai Ram guys,
Normally my dad is the one to send out these mass emails keeping all of us in touch with each other...and sometimes he does so with the most interesting 'daily joke' that I'm sure we all now look forward to receiving at this point! But today I received this message below, as most of you did. And dad's wish was to have everyone who is directly linked to this phenomena know the contents of this email so some of you will have to read his message below for you to understand mine…
Normally, I would stay out of whatever news goes by regarding the latest "installment" of say nilayam-related news...the phone rings almost off the wall here so it's hard to!!
I've received this email from dad today. And now I can't concentrate on school it seems. Thankfully, dad so expectantly sent us all a joke shortly
thereafter so that was a nice "new message" notice in the inbox!
Many of you guys have no idea what's going or what has gone on to cause dad to send you this message. But, I guess it's more important for all of us to know what's going on the "inside" rather than the battles we have to fight with the "outside"…
Only some of you guys are aware, to varying degrees, of the gossiping, the whispering, the yearnings for positions, and the yearnings to upstage others, that has being going on for a while, and to varying degrees. It is evident. For the life of me, I can't understand why or how we could behave like this when we are all working for SWAMI! Please stop…
It causes dad to wish that His father would sop meddling in his life. It causes us all to wish this sometimes. It makes us wonder more and more why we bother sacrificing our lives for this phenomenon. And this latest situation with this "seva daal", it ruins it all.
I am thrilled that I have gotten to meet so many of you over the course of this phenomenon, and in most cases our friendships are becoming stronger every time we meet up. I say in most cases because, as "they" say (whoever they may be...), a bad apple can spoil the whole bunch. Applying that saying to this situation, an array of minor misunderstandings have escalated to such a point that it is capable of seriously harming the joy that we all receive from being together and with Swam.
Accusations of finger pointing are now clearly reflected by self-proclaimed innocence in all regards of the situation here. Furthermore condescending attitudes are masked by the declaration of "poor leadership skills". I will only address this last aspect of the situation because my point in this email is not to give you a play-by-play of the nonsense, and because this last aspect deals directly with my sister who is just "leading" her region as per Swami's wishes! So for one person to accuse her of having "poor leadership skills" attributed to her young age (which is one part of what this person did) is for that person to accuse Swami of the same.
Some people seem to think either that my family controls Swami or my family has the freedom to do whatever it pleases regardless of Swami's presence. I laugh every time I hear that someone thinks we would know their private matters "because Swami knows", or when someone assumes that any directions coming out of Sai Nilayam are things my mom, my sister, or I are just pulling out of our ears (for lack of a better expression.... ;)). Believe me...I know that the scope of this phenomenon is almost entirely beyond comprehension, but please comprehend the simple fact that, regarding this phenomenon, we only carry out Swami's wishes (regarding life...some of us try to do the same ;)).
Now, the central point of my message to you guys… What makes the remarks rotten is that they come from a "seva daal" who attends just about every satsangh wherein Swami presents Himself in His Golden-Age form. This person has the nerve to disrespect my father as though this person is warranted in asking 'who do you think you are?' No one can even FATHOM what my father has gone through and continues to go through for your enjoyment.
And I HAVE to say this, and thus remind some of you who already know this, because these rotten remarks come from someone who is among us, and who's to say that others among us may not harbour the same feelings as this person. Granted, the person who threw these insults at my father does not know him, or us for that matter, very well. But I assumed that being a seva daal, the kind of thoughts in this person's head (which are apparent from his remarks) would be non-existent. We let people into our home. We let complete strangers into our home. We treat them as family. We open our entire life to them in so doing. We sacrifice everything, ever aspect of our lives so that you all continue to enjoy Swami's darshan.
We expect no thanks for it. We want no thanks for it. We expect and know that some would take it for granted. But this is the kind of thanks we get from some people in return for the joy that we try to give them? This is the kind of disrespect that some harbour regarding dad, who sacrifices his ENTIRE BEING for the readily accepted enjoyment of those same people who disrespect him so? I HAVE to ask this because I just can't understand, and I am shocked. And the disrespect that has been shown to my father, whose integrity I have no need to defend, and who brings THE DIVINE to us in a physical form....... Yes, this person is right in one remark to dad....."somewhere in God's creation every action and remark is being tallied. That is the theory of cause and effect".
We know that in this phenomenon, we are surrounded by family who live all over Canada and in the States, in the name of Swami! I guess Swami planted this person here so that my dad could learn to withstand another blow.
And the first chance I have I will question how Swami could decide that this was necessary, when dad is going through an absolutely unique sacrifice for people. I know I don't have to defend dad's integrity because many of you know that these remarks are all unjustified.
This person knows nothing about my father, and evidently does not know much about this phenomenon. But this person's utter disrespect for dad.... But the simple fact that these remarks were thrown at him! and by someone in our group! One bad apple definitely spoils the bunch. and unfortunately so.
sai ram guys.
sonia
(p.s.: sorry about the lag on the website. In a few weeks I'll be able to
add more discourses and so on....)
From: Sugrim Singh
Subject: Why do I bother?
This leads me to think that you saying that, you can read Swami's mind which makes you greater than Him or maybe Swami makes you privy to His mind. Is that what you are saying? I have not placed myself on any pedestal. Swami says, when you point a finger at someone, three are pointing at yourself. (What is the need for your fancy signature file in this correspondence?) Swami gave me a responsibility and it's my butt that's on the line, not yours or your daughter's.
If that is an issue with you, take it up with Swami
If you think because of your authority in the scheme of things and your chosen position you can talk to me rudely, abrasively and from a point that is unjustified, and that you are convincing me or winning my respect, think again. Respect has to be earned. Your conduct not your title will win it. Because of your position you can probably get away with many things. But somewhere in God's creation every action and remark is being tallied. That is the theory of cause and effect.
Sai Ram everyone!
I have taken the liberty to provide you with some snippets coming from an e-mail I received today. This message is in response to a simple task assigned that has taken a life of its own where the individual thinks that he can perform the task without having a reporting responsibility simply because Satya Sai Baba assigned the task which he volunteered for at a Satsangh in Kanata.
I do not wish to address the task in itself since he so eloquently told me that it is none of my business. I will stay out of it. However, I have been forced to rethink my participation in all of what has been going on. I understand that some people are grumbling about the "flavor" of e-mail messages. Some have been going on with the gossiping. Some have been "whispering behind others backs". These things are troubling. Why you may
ask?
Well, unknown to the mass of you, there have been some devotees who are jockeying for positions of authority; some have been jockeying for a position of influence; some have been jockeying for something or the other. I have news for you - anybody wants my position, you are welcome to it. I will have peace of mind and be free from the stupidity that has been occurring.
This individual does not know me and many of you really do not know me. You may think that you do but believe me, I want to be very far from all of this that has been going on. I am reminded in the message that I received - it is insinuated - that I am having three hands pointing at me. Please do not point your hands at me; please do not lift your hands at me; oh please, simply let me go. My entire life, my privacy has gone "topsy turvy".
Instead of devotees coming together and enjoy being with Baba we have so much backstabbing that it is unbelievable. I am reminded of an interview conducted last Friday in India where Amisha Patel responded to a question directed to her: A recently published article said that there is a lobby against you. Comment. In every profession, especially in this field, people don't like you become successful. It is a crab mentality. People always try to pull you down. And when you attain success it hurts them. Basically, Indians have this attitude. Despite our capabilities, our mind is small. We don't like the others rising. Even in our own families, among blood relations, I have seen it happen.
Folks, I do not want your sympathy. I do not want anything from any of you. All I ask is that we should be living as a family. If the young people who have been placed in a position of leadership are lacking in any way, and you are able to recognize this, then be humble enough to help mould them. Is it possible that the reason they were placed there in the first place was to give each of us the opportunity to help pass on our capabilities and in the process develop young strong minds of leadership!!!!!!!!
I appeal to each of you to please realize what and whom you are sitting in darshan with. Bask in the glory and enjoy. You do not know how much I wish I could be present to partake. You do not know how much I miss being with my family in Satsangh.
I am going to ask both das and Simone to pass this message on to their respective Seva Daals whose addresses I do not have. And if any of you are offended in my "glory seeking" address block, please let me know and I will arrange to have the offending thing never ever go to your system again.
Seeta Ram
Sugrim
D. Ram Singh., MBA., FMC
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